I’m a 39 year old pansexual dude
Gamer, geek, goth, nerd, punk, anarcho-hippy, vocalist, artist, blah blah. I’m an ambivert, I’m kinky but I don’t wave it around; I have never and will never smoke indoors, not my thing.
Spent the last 14 years looking after my grandfather (passed) and grandmother (still around), but it’s high time I get on with my own life.
I’m a high-functioning Autistic and Scandinavian raised.
As such, I speak plain and don’t sugarcoat things. Tough love and all that.
Raised to live and let live, but take no shit.
I am my people to a tee, Frisian Freedom is not just a saying to me.
I can usually find common ground with almost anyone, I have a hard exterior; however I’m friendly, as long as we are kind to each other, there shouldn’t be a problem.
I enjoy board/video/computer/tabletop games, backcountry hiking, being out in the wilderness, swimming, dancing (at the goth club), singing, stage karaoke, art, fashion, science, literature, history, computers, technology, pop culture, sub-culture, want to learn yoga, want to learn kettlebells, not religious, but I do follow a spiritual path.
I’m always down for spontaneous adventures, day-drinking on days off, after putting in a hard week’s work, camping (but absolutely no glamping), I’m just getting into other new hobbies as well, but those are farther down the roadmap.
Clean up after myself, was an industrial custodian at a few points in my life. Tend to stay out and be productive, more than stay at home; usually only home to unwind, recharge or if friendly with roommates hang out.
I tend to heavily mask my conditions, as a survival mechanism; that said, if you see me spinning out, it means something is seriously wrong and I may be burnt out.
If you see that, I would appreciate it, if you could provide distraction, if you feel comfortable doing so.
Otherwise just let me ride the Thunder, I bounce back pretty quick on my own.
I usually only ask for help if I am in medical distress; however that is rare with me.