Marc and I are partners (engaged), no lil humans of our own but we both are great with kids. We do have our precious raggamuffin, Vera-lynn who is the friggen sweetest and most precious thing on this planet (next to my marcus♡) him and I are non-cigarette smokers, except sometimes if we misplace our shared vape lol we don’t drink but we do weird stuff sometimes that might make you question if we are under the influence but in a much less obnoxious and intrusive way– we are very much careful to contain our weirdness in shared spaces to include only stuff that’s mildly questionable and arguably funny.
we have been together long enough that we have gotten past all of the “loud” and toxic parts of our relationship, we are comfortable and secure in ourselves/eachother and emotionally intelligent enough and we have learned to communicate effectively so you dont have to worry about us being that a-hole couple screaming at eachother at 4am on a tuesday.
and I’m not just saying that to make us sound more appealing to live with! honestly, not to toot our healthy-well adjusted-adult-people-horn but….toot toot– we’re pretty much friggen ideal roommate material, it’s bananas tbh!
Here’s some more stuff about us that doesn’t make us sound like douchebags (hopefully lol):
We can adapt to any of our roommates’ preferred living situations/comfortabilities;
so like. if you are someone who prefers to keep to yourself and you like to have a strict division between what’s yours and what’s ours in regards to shared spaces and you’d prefer to keep whats yours, yours and for us to keep whats ours, ours–that’s totally cool we respect that!
But if you prefer to have a more cohesive and integrated living situation where we share some responsibilities like groceries (I.e; we buy milk this time and you get it the next time or we all use certain condiments or share foods and we all take turns replacing those items for us all to enjoy whenever we can) and
that could include chores, like we all try to clean up after ourselves but also help eachother out at the same time type-thing, you know? Basically what im saying is that we’re both easy going and respectful people who are strong believers in communication, compromise and being able to adapt to our housemates own needs as long as there is a mutual respect and adaptability on both ends.
Our goal in any living space is to create the most comfortable environment for everyone in the household and we’re willing to be flexible and considerate to everyone’s needs because we both strongly value feeling at ~home ♡~ in our living space and we can imagine that to be what everyones goal is, ideally.
so it’s super important to us that we are able to create that sanctuary and to show our appreciation to whomever it is that has been kind enough to open their home to us!
** shoot me a text message and say hi! I’m open to getting a good line of communication open and to chat with anyone considering us to be their new roommates so we can all get a feel as to how well we might ~vibe~ together and other trendy verbs such as that one bahahahaahha, okay cool.