Joanie

Hi there! My name is Joanie. I’m going to advertise myself like a shelter pet now.

From one bad roomie situation to another, I’m stuck with people I thought were friends that have become some of the most harmful, unpleasant people I know. So, if anyone wants to be the spot that catches me a break, please reach out lol

I had to quit my job (you can ask) and my phone got cut off because I racked up data costs when I didn’t have wifi lmfao. But I have friends and folk helping me out pay rent and contribute groceries until supports grant me support or I find new work. I am not a neet, neither enjoy being unemployed. Work is cope fr.

I typically unwind with my online friends, we game and watch movies. We are a chaotic, but wholesome bunch. Main game is TCSM, but we change it up, things like rdr2o, l4d, dbd, etc.

I try not to be too loud, but I can’t lie, when I crack up, I crack up. I respect night hours, so it’s primarily daytime, and if I’m ever too noisy, it’s all good to let me know. I’m a person with heaps of trauma and honestly, laughter with my friends is the only thing that keeps the big bad away. I have diagnosed AUDHD and DID, and I actively go to therapy with the most sincerest therapist I’ve ever had, biiig big help. She my rock fr. I only mention DID cus like, sometimes I just be zoning out and getting confused by everything, no point in not disclosing since you’ll likely see me having an unga bunga moment. It’s a trauma response, so so-long as we’re chill, I won’t be dying inside to cope.

I like keeping a tidy household, cooking for everyone, and I also enjoy not having all my food ate that I pay for. Even if we share. I care about good vibes and making sure everyone feels safe and has fun. I like looping people into my activities so long as they’re curious or wanna. I have agoraphobia, but I’m always down to go out if I’ve got a buddy.

I’m a big creative type with many ambitions, but with a big fat lap cat personality.

I don’t mind if you’re rowdy, so long as I can tell you the same when you or your friends are too loud, especially if it’s getting into the night. We can always agree on a quiet time as well, earlier or later on which days. I know it’s not hard to have common sense… but so many people are proving wrong. Rip.

I have a current budget of 600 for rent with the help of my folks, this includes utils. When I get the means, I’d be happy to help out more with rent or groceries and whatever else I can do to better contribute if I can receive some slack while I rebuild my life again. My limit when I’m on my feet (aka actually employed) has a track record of being 800 a month.

I’d really appreciate anybody who can just get me the heck out of my current situation and somewhere better. Like ong home-made dinner and dessert everyday kinda gratefulness. I swear it. Nanny services? I gotchu, I raised my 2 lil bros and am long distance co-parenting with a friend (theirs). Gardening? Sure thing. Housework? Yuppers. At home barista? Duh. Genuinely, I’m an extremely thoughtful and good person. Down to cut bill on some hangout takeout.

I also have a fluffy cuddly cat, my parent is watching her for me rn, lmk if you want her to come with. If not, that’s cool.

Thanks for reading my essay. Hmu if you wanna team up, got a private room to help me out with, and allat. Big appreciation for real.

Also I’ll be happy to share my insta and irl pics with you if you message.